Whilst I admire your desire to desire to remove the barriers between people there are still differences between the sexes, both biological and socially enforced (by both men and women).

Men did this to themselves by continuing to be ‘men’ and not just being human…clearer?

For someone who claims to want to treat people as 'humans' instead of men and women, that's a pretty hypocritical statement to make. Men are supposedly bad for not transcending their 'male' group identitity and becoming gender-less humans - but you're okay with denigrating them based on their group identity?

Men do not exist in a vacuum and you've fallen in to the classic trap of blaming them for the society in which they find themselves.