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Might help also to describe what you think feminism is, since it's one of those terms that is overloaded.

I once had a physical therapist tell me she wasn't a feminist because she thought women couldn't be as physically capable as men when serving as soldiers, and seemed to believe feminism requires treating women exactly like men.

I told her I was a feminist because I believe in equal rights for men and women, an idea she did not seem so opposed to.

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[-] klemptor@startrek.website 6 points 1 day ago

I am a staunch second-wave feminist. I believe in equal rights and equal respect for men and women and everyone else who doesn't fit into that binary, and that all should be able to work toward the life that suits them best without worrying about traditional gender roles.

It makes me sad to see women who are quick to say they're not a feminist, because they certainly benefit from feminism and I think they'd be rightly enraged if that went away. If they lost the right to vote, to have a bank account or own a home, to pursue whatever education interests them and work in that field, to choose whether/when/how to have children (RIP Roe v Wade), etc. I think a lot of women take a lot of these things for granted, but they exist because of feminism.

Sadly, I think the term 'feminism' has been successfully demonized in online spaces, to the point that many think it's the same as feminazi. In part this is because the most awful and vocal part of any movement draws a lot of negative attention, and subsequently those who are against equality for women can use feminazis as a boogeyman to denigrate the feminist movement.

[-] DomeGuy@lemmy.world -3 points 1 day ago

"feminazi' is kinda like calling a woman a "female". Its use conveys a "I'm a sexist pig" message you do not seem to intend.

Better terms for women who believe that (cisgender) women are superior to men.

  • Feminine Supremacist
  • Feminine Chauvinist
  • Sexist Woman
  • Man-hater
  • Anti-feminist
  • F.A.R.T.
  • Sexist woman
  • Sexist pig

Some of these may covey other messages in their usage.

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