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New community for discussing women's interests
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Especially lies
Garak is both sex and war
TOS: Uhura
TNG: Riker
DS9: actually hard to choose. Kira or Sisko or Bashir or Jadzia
VOY: Torres, but honorable mention to Kim
ENT: Archer
DIS: Culber or Owosekun
PIC: Seven
SNW: Spock or Uhura or Pike or Chapel, hard to choose
Can't really speak to the other shows because I haven't seen them
I have brain fog due to perimenopause. I used to be so smart - I have degrees in physics and statistics - and now I have to use a calculator for basic arithmetic. I'll start a sentence and my train of thought will just evaporate. And when I try to concentrate on anything even a little bit complex, I lose track of my thoughts, it's like there's TV static where my thoughts belong.
And yeah, then the self-recriminations begin, plus a deep frustration that feels desperate and almost like rage and grief mixed together. And partly I think that's an overreaction, but then again, I'm not sure it is.
It's horribly depressing to go from smart to dumb. And I know my situation isn't nearly as bad as yours, but please know you have my sympathy. It really sucks and I hope it gets better for you soon. ๐ค
Common and disgusting, but unfortunately not always a joke. You probably know this but for the benefit of others who may not be aware, the Husband Stitch is a real thing that used to be pretty commonly done regardless of what the woman wanted and often without her foreknowledge or consent. It's an extra stitch or two placed when sewing a woman back up after a vaginal tear or episiotomy during labor. The purpose is to make the woman "tighter" so her husband can still enjoy having sex with her even though she's given birth, which is staggeringly misogynistic and cruel. And it usually results in really painful sex for the woman because her vaginal opening is artificially small plus now it has inflexible scar tissue. It's a horrific thing to do to a woman, especially after giving birth.
Dude this pic could've waited until your poo was finished
It's about what I would expect from the kind of person who buys squeezy jelly.
I haaaate Teams. Worst thing ever to happen to workplace productivity. And (unless this has been fixed since I retired) chat history isn't persistent past 6 months so you lose your proof of what was discussed, unlike email.
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Update on my favorite lady ๐
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A few weeks ago I posted that my greyhound Greta was in the hospital, and so many of you left such nice comments and well wishes - thank you! She's been back home for a couple weeks now and is doing great.
Here she is with her latest bandage (featuring a G๐ decoration because my vet's office is the best!):
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Update on my favorite lady ๐
(startrek.website)
A few weeks ago I posted that my greyhound Greta was in the hospital, and so many of you left such nice comments and well wishes - thank you! She's been back home for a couple weeks now and is doing great.
Here she is with her latest bandage (featuring a G๐ decoration because my vet's office is the best!):
I chose to believe this is performance art
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My favorite lady
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My little old lady is in the doggo hospital right now (she will be fine) and I miss her and her sweet lil pointy face.
Please share pics of your dogs to cheer me up, especially if there are any grey owners here!
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My favorite lady
(startrek.website)
My little old lady is in the doggo hospital right now (she will be fine) and I miss her and her sweet lil pointy face.
Please share pics of your dogs to cheer me up, especially if there are any grey owners here!
As an actual middle-aged woman who can't even name one Taylor Swift song, give me a giant fucking break. She's rich, famous, appears to have a good head on her shoulders (from what I hear at least), and makes music people really love. This sexist troglodyte is just butthurt that she dares to exist and be successful without his permission, plus he probably wants to bang her. He can fuck right off.
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klemptor
joined 1 year ago
One point three two megs