How afraid are you of talking to strangers in real life on a scale 1-10? (sopuli.xyz)

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I say I am 8. Perhaps one could get used to it by practice. But I made bad experiences and constantly afraid of personal attacks based on ultra-quick judgment.

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[-] Witchfire@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

It's very vibes based and really depends but I'm comfortable in most social situations. The worst is speaking to cishet men because I can never tell in advance whether or not they're gonna be creepy. Alternative and queer looking people are close to 1.

Overall I'm comfortable in social situations though. My partner usually makes me do the talking.

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