If you can do that to someone you say you love, I don't think you love them.

What? You have serious problems if you believe that. I don’t get what you’re saying. I’m saying using a tool for mutual masturbation (or one at a time) is the same as classical normal masturbation of each other. Both are acceptable and normal in a relationship.

Not relevant. When discussing techniques for the application of hair products, those with alopecia are not relevant.

It does when it’s frequent. Also, you’re the one making a generalization, so if you don’t specify, that’s on you

As for your last paragraph, well I don’t see any link with what I said. Unrelated