het and especially cis allyship tends to be extremely conditional and limited in most cases. There are exceptions, people who are actually willing to reflect on their internalized biases are out there, there's people who actually support me when i need their help, but particularly libs are just very performative and shallow about it. Generally the more "centrist" / counter-revolutionary somebody is, the less they have personal experience with being marginalized and opressed, the less they are informed by actual theory and the more they go by liberal universalism, the higher the likelyhood they will immediately throw me under the bus.