lol that's not idealism. just because you have a bad relationship with your parents doesn't mean people shouldn't be allowed to be parents. if you said this shit to someone from a loving family who respects and loves their parents and has those feelings reciprocated do you think they would think you're saying anything worth considering?

you also can't take what is basically a eugenicist position and then say "but anybody who calls it eugenics is x y or z".

i notice a lot of "my personal problem is actually a problem with everybody else" here. with that being said, i guess this is a good time to disengage