im not upholding anything. i agree the nuclear family does a lot of harm towards people, but you're not pushing towards abolishing the nuclear family by going off on some self righteous screed about how horrible yours and others parents are, again trying to control who gets to have children is just going to be used to push eugenics every single time.

i am especially suspicious because the original reddit thread this is about is filled with comments shitting on children and their parents for being poor and "lazy", because the kids arent being raised "right" by the parents, you really dont understand how you're also pushing forward the same kind of reactionary thought?