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It’s something I’ve heard a lot, and it’s obviously a compliment and meant to be nice. But I’m probably never going to have kids of my own and I just think of the father I could have been.

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[-] dharmacurious@slrpnk.net 1 points 2 weeks ago

Same boat, OP. Same boat. I have wanted to be a dad since I was tiny. Like, so bad. And it will likely never happen for me. I'm 34, and I get told by all my friends with kids how great I am with them, how good an uncle I am. And that's nice. But it hurts. It hurts a lot.

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