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It’s something I’ve heard a lot, and it’s obviously a compliment and meant to be nice. But I’m probably never going to have kids of my own and I just think of the father I could have been.

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[-] ComfortableRaspberry@feddit.org 1 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

I heavily leaned on parental figures outside my family. I know it's not the same and you're obviously still hurting because of what you feel like you've lost, but you can be a parent in many different ways.

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