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Hello comrades and welcome to the first improvement megathread of December! bonfire The thread is one day late this time, sorry about that.


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+ How was your week?

+ Do you have any plans for next week?

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[-] Moss@hexbear.net 2 points 1 week ago

Ive always thought of myself as a lazy and unproductive person, but I realised that all I've done this year is work. I've constantly missed out on social gatherings with my friends because of work. I hate my job and in the new year i am desperate to find a new one.

But aside from that, in my free time I read, write, draw, I make YouTube videos, I'm a scout leader, I go rock climbing. I have a lot going on, and I'm really a very productive person. Ive just internalised the idea that I'm lazy

[-] Moss@hexbear.net 2 points 1 week ago

But speaking of looking for a new job, I applied for one a while ago and was told that I'm their 284th pick despite being massively overqualified. So that fucking sucks

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