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[-] andioop@programming.dev 3 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Social proof is a hell of a drug. Getting off Instagram was always a "yeah they suck, I barely use the app, but I do not really want to spend the energy" for me; then I saw a real life friend do a post about how they were getting off Instagram. I promptly did the same.

That's always the problem when deciding whether to post something you did you think is good and that you want others to do more. How much would I possibly influence others to do the same (because my nobody ass followed my nobody friend in getting off Insta, we clearly do not have to be mega celebrities to put our small drop of influence in the proverbial bucket), vs how much backlash will I get in the vein of "why do you have to announce it and have a public privacy tantrum, you're not that special boo" and "humblebrag much? nobody cares". (I'm special to the group of people that cares about me, as I am sure everyone is to the group of people that care about them! And social media makes it easier to announce it to them instead of texting everyone individually, and if you don't have a giant group chat… I do wonder what standards you have to meet before you can post online without being told "nobody cares".)

this post was submitted on 29 Dec 2025
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