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I live in an area where people ask you where you're from and if you actually live in the neighborhood. They may assume you don't speak English, like they have with my wife.

ICE has already gone through the town nextdoor, and I'm waiting for our turn. I'm light-skinned, but my wife and kids are dark with Mayan features. I fear that all anyone has to do to terrorize my family is call a hotline. We have all our citizenship documentation, but that doesn't matter anymore.

I keep waiting for the day when I'm going to have to defend my family, but I might not even be around when things take place. What if they come take my wife while she's at work? What if she goes shopping and never comes back?

I have nothing without my family. I have nothing.

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[-] archonet@lemy.lol 4 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

If you don't already own a firearm, I strongly suggest now is the time to obtain one (rifle, shotgun, or a nice full-size pistol with a brace) for your family's safety. I would also suggest getting pepperspray, a taser, or a small-caliber handgun (.380 would be good) for your wife.

[-] ape_arms@lemmy.world 18 points 1 week ago

I understand the feelings that lead to giving this advice, but this will not end well for anyone. There are better options, especially if children are involved.

[-] AntiBullyRanger@ani.social 0 points 1 week ago
[-] dalekcaan@feddit.nl 13 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Not starting a firefight with a bunch of trigger happy fascist with the firepower of a small country who would like nothing more than an excuse to shoot some foreigners, with your kids in the building? I understand the sentiment, but this is not an 80's action flick and the average American is not Arnold Schwarzenegger.

[-] AntiBullyRanger@ani.social -1 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

wait wait, this funny for so many reasons, but why would you comply with your oppressors?
Isn't this exactly what they want, and you are willing to give it to them completely willingly‽

I get you just admitted you don't know your historical antifascist liberating acts, but capitulating isn't one of them.

[-] idiomaddict@lemmy.world 10 points 1 week ago

I think you’re underestimating the importance of the clause that their kids are in the building. It’s a very different thing to throw a brick at the cops when you’re alone and when you’ve got small children. The government doesn’t give a fuck about keeping kids out of it, meaning parents have to.

[-] AntiBullyRanger@ani.social -1 points 1 week ago

I am extremely aware how the US coerces families. I am asking if it's worth complying with the succeeding genocides?

[-] dalekcaan@feddit.nl 4 points 1 week ago

I was talking about this specific situation, actually. The one this post is about? I personally wouldn't get my kids involved with a shootout with the US government, but you do you. Glad you were able to deduce my entire stance and general knowledgeability regarding antifascism based on that, though. Pretty cool.

[-] AntiBullyRanger@ani.social 1 points 1 week ago

OP already said they’ll protest and donate, if I read the sardonism correctly.

Anyways, hope your demolition of deathcamps goes better than 22 more years.
Glory to the 🇺🇲empire!

[-] muxika@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago

We have a reliable handgun and some other weapons in the house. We could use some good OC spray, though, like the kind that shoots 3-10 ft. I hope I can buy those as a civilian. I might still have a spare handcuff key, too. Gotta check my military gear.

[-] ProdigalFrog@slrpnk.net 1 points 1 week ago

POM is a solid brand of OC, since it sprays in a concentrated stream instead of a mist/spray (the mist requires a bit less aim, but it doesn't work in the wind, and can often blow back into your own face, or be inhaled if used inside a room in a house). Their big cans are restricted in a handful of states, but the smaller pocket models are 50 state legal.

Good luck.

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