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Welcome to the meat grinder my friend.
You sound part of the younger generation starting to enter the work force. Stay at home as long as possible (family situation permitting) and save your pennies.
I think these days with the current climate you have it really tough - everything is fucked in the work world and its all about more production more money at the cost of your soul. Good employers are far and few between.
You have 2 options:
Stay on your current trajectory and feed yourself in to the grinder, you might eventially find stability.
Alternative life paths to the traditional ones.
I know a few people that barely work and travel around all the time. They are some of the happiest people I know. They usually have a skill that can be traded for goods or money like painting, woodwork, think trade based skills, handyman stuff.
You also have the third option of asking your parents for a small loan of 1 million dollars and starting your own business.
Unfortunately I'm not that young. I'm at a point where I would like to have my own place, find someone, get married, maybe have kids in a few years. But I don't have the money, and much less the work/life balance necessary. There's been a couple of times where a girl asked if I have my own place, and it always hurts to answer.
I don't know about your age or situation, but if you're old enough that you're taking care of your parents in a reasonable capacity, then you're no longer living with your parents, your parents are living with you.