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Imagine being afraid of the ‘friend zone’ (hexbear.net)

submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by Lussy@hexbear.net to c/chapotraphouse@hexbear.net

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Oh no, my miserable life that’s devoid of any connection and anyone altogether otherwise *at least contains a friend.

What the fuck man, is this a real concern average people have that I’m way too fucking alienated to understand

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[-] FunkyStuff@hexbear.net 10 points 1 year ago

I relate to this. But I think generally the term is used to mean when you ask the person to take the relationship to something more than friends, but they'd rather stay friends. We should come up for a name for what you say, the self-imposed friend zone?

[-] FourteenEyes@hexbear.net 14 points 1 year ago

I would say it's still the same spot, because at that point the feelings have been resolved on one end, and it's your responsibility to deal with yours. If you're okay with staying friends, that's fine. If the rejection is too painful and you need some space, just let them know in a respectful way and take time to handle your emotions.

Either way it's a state of mind.