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so im kind of a mess. just turned 15 yesterday, mentally ill, just got checked out at the doctor for bulimia and trying to eat without gagging myself, and lgbt. i am nonbinary fem and pansexual :,) do you have any advice for me? life can be hard, especially for someone like me imo.

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[-] extremeboredom@lemmy.world 28 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Yes, social media will not improve your life. Seek real life friendships and lean into them.

Also don't announce you're a minor on the internet.

Also you should talk to a real human adult you can trust about these things, like a parent or a teacher or school counselor or doctor, not the internet. The internet on average will not have your best interests at heart.

[-] billwashere@lemmy.world 6 points 2 days ago

I’ve never understood trying to get help from strangers on the internet. Yeah you might find some decent folks with real advice and help, but generally I wouldn’t bet on it.

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