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[-] paultimate14@lemmy.world 12 points 1 week ago

I have a vague memory of reading an article years ago (can't find it now) about how pre-industeializarion, the average number of people an individual interacted with and knew wa much smaller.

We used to live in small villages. Houses would contain extended families. You'd probably know your neighbors pretty well. You'd know the people you went to church with. It was not uncommon for someone to be born in a village and live their until their death without ever leaving that village.

Whenever I hear people talk about how humans NEED social connection I'm reminded of that. My college graduating class was perhaps more people than several generations of my ancestors interacted with. There's a strong argument that we have hyper-optinizsd socialization today. Constantly connected to dozens of people we know and millions that we don't. Stimulation, novelty, and distraction enough to last more lifetimes than I can imagine.

Perhaps in this modern age, the person most difficult to engage with and the most important, is the self.

[-] rumschlumpel@feddit.org 2 points 5 days ago

On a lot of days, I speak to 0 people.

[-] ShrimpCurler@lemmy.dbzer0.com 8 points 1 week ago

I'd be willing to bet those people that never left their village would have had many deep connections within the village and would interact with at least a few people on a daily basis. We may tend to know many more people these days, but the connections tend to be shallow and/or infrequent.

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