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submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by Lussy@hexbear.net to c/chapotraphouse@hexbear.net

Oh no, my miserable life that’s devoid of any connection and anyone altogether otherwise *at least contains a friend.

What the fuck man, is this a real concern average people have that I’m way too fucking alienated to understand

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[-] christiansocialist@hexbear.net 2 points 1 year ago

I like the idea of a dating coach.

That's essentially what the PUAs from the 2000s were. It was only towards the end of the 2000s and the early 2010s that you started to see that stuff morph into the "manosphere" and "red pill" stuff you see today.

[-] Othello@hexbear.net 4 points 1 year ago

you think the pua's of the 2000s weren't misogynistic?

[-] christiansocialist@hexbear.net 1 points 1 year ago

I'm sure there was some there but it was mostly just guys who had gotten rejected a lot trying to figure out how to be more confident, dress better, and learn how to talk to women. Later on people started to mix politics in with it (i.e. "women are only like this cuz of feminism, liberalism, etc.")

[-] Othello@hexbear.net 5 points 1 year ago

it was always creepy from the get go, you familiar with Neil Strauss? you might benefit from hearing about his experience. like this is not good.

[-] christiansocialist@hexbear.net 2 points 1 year ago

Yeah I know who he is. He actually had trouble with women even though he had backstage passes as a writing for rolling stone magazine. It wasn't until after he learned the dating skills that he was able to be better with women.

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