Hey guys, stop moving on to the next commercial service who will do the exact same thing once they get up to critical mass.

Yes, commercial services are easier to setup. The cost you pay is all of your privacy and your loss of control over the service that you're building your communities on.

Stop making this same mistake OVER and OVER and OVER.

Take the time to find the IT workers or tech nerds in your community, take donations to rent server space and administer it yourself. Moving from Discord to Teamspeak isn't an improvement, you're just selecting the next group of people who will sell you out the moment that it becomes profitable.

Use Free and Open Source solutions, that your community hosts themselves. You have Mumble (https://www.mumble.info/) for voice, XMPP (https://xmpp.org/software/?category=servers) for text chat, Discourse (https://github.com/discourse/discourse) for forums, or even setup a Lemmy instance.

None of these things are difficult to use and the administrative side of things is simple (most are simply pre-made and hardened Docker containers). Even if you don't want to deal with that yourself, there are managed hosts available for all of these pieces of software. If you don't want to administer a Mumble server you can just rent one for less than the cost of a single Discord subscription. There are similar managed hosts for all of the other software.

Every game that I've ever played as part of a large community has had forum software and voice chat that we've hosted ourselves. Discord killed all of that because they offered the same service for free and made it easier.

Well, it wasn't free, they've been steadily enshittfying and profiting off of the users. The prices keep increasing and they're depending on the Network Effect ("I can't leave because everyone uses it!") to keep you trapped on their services.