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I don't think it's a common enough issue to do mandatory testing.
Can I ask if you are M or F?
M
You don't think there are a lot of men who are being baby trapped and at charge of kids that aren't biologically theirs wo knowing it? You expect too much from women IMHO
How often is that happening?
It is more common than what you think, I don't have the exact numbers because there are not exact numbers about it, but just in my family it happened to two uncles.
Are you extrapolatijg your families experience to the rest of the world?
I'm just saying if two close persons I know have been baby trapped now imagine how people are out there in the same situation, not just because they are from my family just because they are close enough to know, how many are out there which didn't say anything or didn't know. There are people who say maybe 1 in 3 men raise kids which are not theirs without knowing. Really I think 1 in 3 are too many but as there is no statistic about it who knows.
My friend, you are extrapolating based in a sample size of 2, to the entire world. Then, proposing this MASSIVE healthcare change based on that. ...
I'm not proposing anything, I was just wondering what other people think about it, honestly I'm not concerned about it as anyway I'm not willing to have another serious relationship for the rest of my life not to mention having children or taking care of someone else's kid.
Okay, so you understand the implications of how absurd the question is?
Therapy helped me with my last breakup
I feel it is not so absurd, are you saying there are no cases or just a few of men who are being cheated on and then baby trapped with a kid is not theirs? Or you suppose women are so saint so they will not lie with something like that?