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Mine:

  1. Learn a second language and keep up with the language your parents speak. You will regret being a brat about not wanting to speak this language especially as your family members pass.
  2. The only opinions about you that really matter are from the people you respect and who respect you back
  3. Being a kind humble person, who leads their political convictions with curiosity and not self righteousness is important. As that one person said: "I am no hero and neither are you."
  4. Don't throw out your old media (mix cds, tapes, records, photos, zinee, etc) because you think they're embarrassing. They either will not be embarrassing later or they will become expensive and you can tell them for mad bucks.
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[-] NotMyOldRedditName@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

There's usually more than 1 way to do something.

Sometimes people get caught up on wanting to do it the best way, and then they just dont do it at all.

If there's an easier, less ideal, maybe slightly more wasteful way to do something, and its the difference between doing it or not, just do it that way and dont get hung up on perfection if the alternative is not getting it done.

If its something that needs to be built into a habit, it might be enough to get you started, and then maybe you can move on to the better way in the future.

Edit: just to clarify, often times the outcome is the same but people get caught up on the how vs just getting it done. Don't get caught up on the best how if there's another way that'll also work that you will find easier to do.

this post was submitted on 07 Mar 2026
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