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this post was submitted on 10 Apr 2026
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Twist the question:
Do you really care if your partner lives-in instagram "reality" or in what you experience as reality?!
Appearance-based "league" costs: it costs attention, focus, dedication, & resources.
Some care about experience-induced-value, others about appearance-based-value, & it shows.
Had a friend tell me once they lost a friend to modeling: it ate her brain.
Now all she could discuss were makeup & hair.
Was Einstein at the bottom, or the top, of "league", once he'd become a philosopher?
See?
One's values is the basis of "league".
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