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Those of you who don't wash your hands after going to the bathroom, why?
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I'm disgusted by your gas lighting. You keep trying to characterize normal, trace amounts of pee as "piss-soaked" and that I'm spreading STIs. Get a grip on yourself.
you can give a partner a UTI or bacterial vaginosis if your junk is dirty and you have intercourse unprotected.
Why many vagina holders value hygeine in a partner. Just A fyi for anyone agreeing with this person that it is fine to lack in cleanliness in this manner. Yall are wild.
I don't fuck with dirty junk and would never advocate for that. I'm taking issue with the over-the-top idea that all body parts and all undergarments must be in pristine condition at all times. This is anti-human.
No I wasn't? I was taking issue with the idea that a drop of piss in your underwear is some disgusting calamity.
You told me I should wear a diaper lol.
was me, I did it
My mistake.
Is this your first day on earth? Literally every single man you have ever met has a drop of piss in their underwear.
No they didn't lmao.
Hey, if your husband wipes his pee hole after pissing, power to him. He is in the extreme minority of men though. Similarly, if had been giving infections to my wife all these years (or she to me), we would have noticed. I don't even need clothes to come off before I can smell whether someone washes or not. Probably why showers are so popular.
And just because your husband wipes his dick after pissing doesn't mean anyone else does.
And I'm telling you, they didn't wipe their dicks. I don't need to have slept with any men to know that none of them wipe their dicks after pissing with any sort of regularity. How many times have you lined up at a busy bank of urinals? Amazingly, they never have toilet paper in them.
You've taken a stupid position (that penis-havers should wipe after peeing) and you won't climb down from it.
Oh, cuz I agree with that. I thought you were also saying that it's disgusting, and unusual to not wipe the dick after pissing.
Fine.
Cmon this was a two way street. If I didn't understand your original point, it may have been because of everything you said subsequently. I think it was pretty clear what I was taking issue with.
And I never said anything about not washing your hands except to agree with you that one should.
This was in response to you claiming I "want pissy underwear", which goes back to what I was saying about your point being unclear. This is what I have the problem with. Characterizing a normal situation around normal bodily functions as abnormal and disgusting. I believe you can relate, as a woman. I take that as gas lighting, and I'm offended by it.
Even as a trans woman who has (obviously) never had a period in her life, I physically cringed when the person you replied to made that comparison. Holy shit. And while we're at it, wipe your fucking dick. Courtesy shake doesn't cut it.