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this post was submitted on 10 Apr 2026
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I think a lot of hate comes from:
yep, lots of jealousy
and they never realize just how much work is actually involved
for real this topic always comes along when my bf jokes about opening an OF together
i bluntly respond with "yeah we just need to market ourselves on elon's twitter for months with teasers and maybe paying for that blue mark while networking with other creators"
You forgot:
Those are probably covered by the other three groups
I mean they can, there are many male OF models and some don't even work out, you only need to find your place in the market (usually with a kink)
i wish i had this realization when i was younger. lol
back then, i was deeply confused when i learned that people were getting off to a surreptitiously recorded hookup that featured me because i assumed no fancied me; yet there was in in my full glory laughing at the wailing coming from the man i'm pleasuring and the video had over 100k likes/upvotes.
it wouldn't have made me a millionaire; but it would have gotten me a hell of a lot closer than i will ever be. lol
and at least i got a husband out of the whole affair; i like silver linings. lol
damn that sounds hot no wonder it got many likes lol
you would be surprised, a friend of mine got popular with their low quality gay orgy videos and now lives on Canada and its part of a polycule
sounds like they did better than i did. lol
For sure! I didn't mean "they can't make money" as in "men can't make any money". That'd be absurd.
I meant that "those angry individuals can't make money from it". And maybe they could if they tried, but they're not trying, so they can't.
You do know that you don't have to be gay to make gay porn, right?