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submitted 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) by Fedpie@sopuli.xyz to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

I understand that some of the criticism comes from conservatives but the sentiment seems to extend far beyond thst. Of course, I understand it when it's forced or when someone only does it to survive against their will. But if people genuinely want to do it, why do people hate on them?

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[-] otp@sh.itjust.works 14 points 1 month ago

I think a lot of hate comes from:

  • People who are jealous of people with natural looks
  • People are jealous of people who have more motivation than them to exercise and keep their bodies healthy
  • Men who exercise and work on their bodies but can't make any money from it
[-] vantablack@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 1 month ago

yep, lots of jealousy

and they never realize just how much work is actually involved

[-] sakuraba@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 month ago

for real this topic always comes along when my bf jokes about opening an OF together

i bluntly respond with "yeah we just need to market ourselves on elon's twitter for months with teasers and maybe paying for that blue mark while networking with other creators"

[-] prole@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)
[-] otp@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 month ago

Those are probably covered by the other three groups

[-] sakuraba@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 month ago

Men who exercise and work on their bodies but can’t make any money from it

I mean they can, there are many male OF models and some don't even work out, you only need to find your place in the market (usually with a kink)

[-] eldavi@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 month ago

i wish i had this realization when i was younger. lol

back then, i was deeply confused when i learned that people were getting off to a surreptitiously recorded hookup that featured me because i assumed no fancied me; yet there was in in my full glory laughing at the wailing coming from the man i'm pleasuring and the video had over 100k likes/upvotes.

it wouldn't have made me a millionaire; but it would have gotten me a hell of a lot closer than i will ever be. lol

and at least i got a husband out of the whole affair; i like silver linings. lol

[-] sakuraba@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 month ago

damn that sounds hot no wonder it got many likes lol

you would be surprised, a friend of mine got popular with their low quality gay orgy videos and now lives on Canada and its part of a polycule

[-] eldavi@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 month ago

sounds like they did better than i did. lol

[-] otp@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 month ago

I mean they can, there are many male OF models and some don't even work out, you only need to find your place in the market (usually with a kink)

For sure! I didn't mean "they can't make money" as in "men can't make any money". That'd be absurd.

I meant that "those angry individuals can't make money from it". And maybe they could if they tried, but they're not trying, so they can't.

[-] Korhaka@sopuli.xyz 0 points 1 month ago

You do know that you don't have to be gay to make gay porn, right?

this post was submitted on 10 Apr 2026
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