The world isn't like that though.

The reality of the world is most people want to meet at a bar or do an activity, and that costs money. And men are expected to pay for the dating. Splitting the tab is now very rare. People are a lot more traditionally sexist than they were 10-20 years ago.

I date. Most women want to be wined and dined, or they want to do a trendy activity date. Even if I take a woman out to a museum and a glass of wine, it's going to run me $100. Museum tickets are 30-40 dollars pp, and the wine is going to be 15-20 a glass.

Women I met used to offer to split, but that basically stopped happening post pandemic. Now they never offer to split. I've also noticed surge in women demanding traditional gender role dating both in person and on dating apps. Nobody is a feminist anymore like they were 10 years ago. They all want 'masculine men' and they want to be 'feminine women'. A lot more women I meet now are now asking me if I am 'actually straight/gay' now too. No woman was asking me if I was gay 10 years ago. Gender expectations have changed and regressed.

Article is talking about the dating world, as it is, as of 2026. Not how it used to be, not how it ought to be.