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this post was submitted on 22 Sep 2023
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I recognize this, i'm a bit of a 'thank you'er' too. Sometimes i upvote, but particularly if someone sent me an elaborate reply, or they share something personal, or they took the effort to look something up or share a link, i will thank them. However, i don't thank them so much from a feeling of low self worth (so, not because i don't want to seem ungrateful), but because i want to make them happy, or feel good. It's a bit of a shift of perspective, i think. We live in a world that can be pretty cold and harsh and i have no idea how the person that replies feels. They might be social, reply to me, move on without a second thought. But they might also be someone who generally feels depressed or worthless and in that case my sincere thanks might make their day, or at least brighten a moment in their day.
Great comment, thank you. This is the only one I have seen so far that I really agree with. All the other replies are a bit self-absorbed, imo.
Thanks for the compliment, stranger, and have a great day/evening :-)