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submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by MagneticFusion@lemm.ee to c/fediverse@lemmy.world

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I like a lot of the communities on that instance, but every once in a while I just get hit with a random wave of toxicity by them for no reason. For example, there was a post asking which communities from Reddit do you wish existed on Lemmy, and I answered honestly saying more car related communities as they are one of my hobbies, and I got severely downvoted and got replied to with "there is a FuckCars community" There are other times in the past where something similar happened in a lemmy.ml community, where I said something that was 100% non-offensive, non-argumentative, and non-political but got mass down voted for no reason. I have not had this problem anywhere else however. Does anyone else have a similar experience or no?

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[-] banner80@fedia.io 14 points 1 year ago

Lemmy is a bit of a darkweb corner. It's growing fast from Reddit users, but redditors are not particularly known for being the best form of the online argument either.

Like anywhere else, I'd say pick your communities carefully. And accept that a platform that is in shift and growth has a lot of potential for weird encounters. Try not to take the bad experiences too personally.

[-] gabe@literature.cafe 10 points 1 year ago

Something that takes a bit of adjustment that a lot of ex-Redditors here are yet to realize: the fediverse is specifically built for curating your experience overall. It's not meant to replicate the Reddit's everything all jumbled together experience. There technically is somewhat of a post algorithm to a degree on lemmy, but most of the fediverse doesn't have that and what lemmy has is a very bare minimum. Follow the communities you are interested in and block the ones you really can't vibe with. When more granular blocking and silencing comes especially on the admin end, it'll be more easy to utilize that curation experience as well. No one here is forced to interact with you and you aren't forced to interact with them, and if the person you cant vibe with is an instance admin or a community mod you can go somewhere you vibe better or start something new yourself instead if you have time and energy to do so.

Free yourself and block that community that raises your blood pressure. You aren't missing anything, I promise.

[-] Eldritch@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago

This exactly. I keep my front page the list of my subscribed communities sorted by activity. And it's all good in the hood. If I want to go looking for trouble then look at all sorted by activity. Just like or even more so than on reddit. Just throwing yourself out into the deep end of the stream to see what happens to float by is not a good idea for just starting to get involved. Follow what you like and slowly expand from there.