People use all the apps for whatever they want regardless of the app's intended usage. Feeld does cut to the chase a bit better but it's aimed at kinksters and the like. Hopefully you're into ENM, enbies and rope play. If you're looking for something more vanilla, it's not the best pond to fish in

I also think people in the ~25 age demographic are going to be more flaky and flighty no matter where you meet them.