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Sore Losers of Lemmy: What Helped You Start to Lose with Grace?
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Honestly, a massive one for me is not letting myself get angry at a game I can't hope to understand or master at a highly competitive level. I do a lot better at recognizing these days when I am intellectually or physically incapable of getting better quickly at a game - my mind shifts these activities outside of a competitive mindset and more to a leisure mindset.
When I'm not trying to actively compete against others to a point of pride, suddenly I'm a lot more receptive to incremental growth at my own pace