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‘Pure greed:’ Etiquette expert explains why tipping has gotten out of control
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I don't mind tipping the services that I have always tipped my whole life, way before COVID even happened: delivery drivers, grocery baggers, barbers, and sit down restaurants where I get served.
Who the hell tips grocery baggers? Bizarre
I used to shop on military bases and the commissary baggers have always only worked for tips.
Okay, but can we admit that topping barbers is fucking weird?
What is the point of the cost of the haircut if I have to pay more on top of that? Just... Charge more for the haircut.
Tipping from its inception was fucking weird. So weird that I'd say it was outright malicious. I'm sure many people are aware at this point that tipping was explicitly created to justify underpaying newly freed slaves, making the entire practice outright racist, Jim Crow era bullshit. The idea persisted so long that it became an uncomfortable and unwanted part of American culture, but at its core, it only exists to circumvent businesses paying a fair wage to its slaves. Greed is the motive, greed is the vibe.
I tip barbers like taxi drivers where I throw in an extra £1 if I'm paying in cash. I think this makes me eccentric in the UK though; not sure it is normal to tip them. Usually don't bother adding a tip if paying by card.
Restaurants have recently started adding a discretionary 10% service charge to bills in my city but that is the tip. Wouldn't tip more than that. If they don't include it in the bill I try to work out something like 12% from quick mental maths and add that on.
I've noticed the till checkouts have options to tip in some shops now but have never given any tips via the prompt.