That's a great point. Often straight guys have lower standards and I was looking at it from that viewpoint. Women often complain most men see all of them as a potential sexual partner and I'm not sure if they are wrong in a lot of cases.

Still I wonder really there is no one in the whole city, province, or country that is a match? The smaller pool is something I should factor in though if I'm being fair.

In addition most of my relationships have been with people not originally from the area but neither am I.