One of my favourite responses from family members goes something like ... how did you not know that was your mothers, uncle, second cousin through marriage, stepson's foster child? Don't you even know your own family?

I have a ton of family in a variety of situations either through marriage, divorce, commonlaw, one night stands, rape, incest, undetermined, suspected, or just unknown ... it's also an Indigenous family so it gets weird sometimes when you have all brown family members and then an oddball white child that came out of left field, no explanation, no one talks about it, yet the white looking child is no different in culture and language than any of the rest of the family. I have two cousins who could pass off as completely white but their first language is Ojibway-Cree and they were born and raised like brown little old me.

And it gets hilariously insane quickly too ... the whole family will complain about the indian-wanna-bes and pretendians ... while our white looking cousins are sitting right next to us agreeing to everything we're saying.

Families are weird .... Native families are on another level