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So, people can't walk around their own apartment? If I pay rent, I expect to be able to walk around my apartment as much as I want, even wearing shoes, this is not unreasonable. This is a building code problem, not your neighbors being assholes.
There's a huge difference between walking in one's own apartment and throwing raging parties and stuff like that.
Old European apartments with wooden floors that amplify sound like a fine tuned violin disagree :-)
To OP : talk to your neighbours. We had one old lady who wore her (lady shoes with a little heel) shoes inside and made a racket, she wouldn't have known if we hadn't asked. Now the nice lady wears slippers :-)
Asking is of course fine.
My roommate stomps around like he's a 600lb land whale. He's like 140lb. I'm a bigger dude and sometimes people don't even hear me coming. Be considerate and walk like a normal person
Maybe it’s a bigger person thing to be so cognizant of our walking noise. But I deliberately walk a bit different around my apartment to make less noise and be courteous to my neighbors below.
I only step on certain points on my floor because of how creaky the boards are
I always wondered how shit like this worked. My mom's uostairs neighbors are of normal size, but they stomp around like they each weigh 600 lbs. I don't get it.
Sounds get amplified, my neighbor joked I was running a factory etc, it was just me, mostly barefoot, sometimes vacuuming.
It really isn't that hard to be considerate. Just make an effort to not stomp around. Walk on the balls of your feet. It's actually good for you.
It really isn't that hard to be tolerant of someone wanting to move about their own home.
It really isn’t hard to be considerate of your neighbors. Sure, you have the right to stomp around your house. There is a lot of asshole behavior that is within your rights.