What could my upstairs neighbor possibly be doing to make this much noise? (lemmy.world)

submitted 11 months ago by NightAuthor@lemmy.world to c/asklemmy@lemmy.world

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Their foot steps sound like they just have 2 pegs for feet… they hit so hard.

And they frequently, almost daily, spend the entire evening stomping around the entire footprint of their apartment.

Are there people who really just get the top floor, and think “I’m so smart, and everyone else can get fucked” then proceed to make all the fucking noise in the world?

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[-] afunkysongaday@lemmy.world 10 points 11 months ago

Did you already tell them there is a problem with the floor dampening and you hear every step very loudly? Surely you would not just expect them to know that they are not supposed to walk around in their own apartment and instead of talking to them tell everyone on the internet how bad they are? Because that would be pathetic.

[-] NightAuthor@lemmy.world 17 points 11 months ago

My confrontation avoidance is pathetic, I’m working on it in therapy along w my generalized anxiety and other things.

But on the other hand, loud neighbors is a common issue in apartments, whether intentional or not… and idk, I just automatically try not to make a shit load of noise out of courtesy. Though, I’ve just recently learned that that behavior may be a byproduct of anxiety.

Also, it’s not as if I named and shamed them. There’s virtually no details about them at all.

[-] afunkysongaday@lemmy.world 4 points 11 months ago

Yeah tbh I went full contrarian with that comment don't take it too seriously 😅 apologies for being so confrontational. Kudos for working on your issues!

It's astonishing what kind of annoying asocial behavior people sometimes show while being absolutely unaware! We are all caught in our own stories sometimes and don't always have good awareness of our sourrounding. The way you describe the situation it sounds like yes, they should be aware that they are loud, but it's still very likely that they just aren't! We've all been there!

[-] intensely_human@lemm.ee -3 points 11 months ago

You should work on it in this situation too.

[-] Socsa@sh.itjust.works 1 points 11 months ago

ITT: people who spend no time thinking about how their actions might impact others.

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