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If there was ever a sign that I might have ADHD...
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I'd hate this kind of reaction. Like, why didn't they tell me anything? Was it not obvious enough how much I struggled in life?
This type of feedback is not always well-received. Do you think your friends know that you are open to hearing their critical analysis of your personality traits?
I understand where you're coming from, but I reckon there's a lot someone can say or do to steer a person in the right direction, without being overly harsh or direct.
I wouldn't expect anyone to just outright say Hey, you exhibit strong symptoms of ADHD, might wanna get that checked out.
But maybe a few hints here and there could go a long way already. Casually bring the topic up when it might fit into a conversation, making it occupy a portion of their mind, just enough for them to get interested in some research.
That can be tricky but understand what you're saying. I think many people are concerned, sometimes overly concerned, with offending others, so they avoid even making the barest hint that someone may have an issue.