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submitted 9 months ago by kionite231@lemmy.ca to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

Hi, I am 19M. I always feel horny around beautiful girl. However I don't like it because it makes me uncomfortable around them.

How do you control yourself in that situation?

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[-] ThatFembyWho@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 9 months ago

The solution is to examine why it makes you uncomfortable. Most likely irrational thoughts are at the root of this. If it's an involuntary response of your body to external stimuli, then it's ultimately self-harming and destructive to punish yourself for what you can't help. Especially when you consider that as humans, we are animals, and animals have the same response.

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