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What's something you used to do/see/say but don't anymore because you don't feel it's right? (lemmy.world)

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Me personally? I've become much less tolerant of sexist humor. Back in the day, cracking a joke at women's expense was pretty common when I was a teen. As I've matured and become aware to the horrific extent of toxicity and bigotry pervading all tiers of our individualistic society, I've come to see how exclusionarly and objectifying that sort of 'humor' really is, and I regret it deeply.

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[-] chase_what_matters@lemmy.world 60 points 1 year ago

I learned these real quick in the workplace as a young adult, around a coworker with a mentally disabled child, and with a coworker who was gay. The abstraction is what made using such crude language easy. As soon as I knew someone affected by the words, I snapped out of it.

Abstraction, come to think of it, is what permits a lot of bad behavior.

[-] T0rrent01@lemmy.world 22 points 1 year ago

See, this is why we need more diverse representation in the media now. Manchildren always whine about "diversity ruining everything" when it's really a truer reflection of America's evolving demographics.

[-] Silviecat44@aussie.zone 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

People don’t complain about diversity usually, they complain about bad writing. It needs to be part of a story and not just a checkbox

[-] Feathercrown@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

If hollywood could figure out how to make well-written diverse stories it'd remove the ability for bigots to obfuscate by lumping themselves in with people who just don't like the writing

[-] orphiebaby@lemm.ee 1 points 7 months ago

On it.

[-] Feathercrown@lemmy.world 1 points 7 months ago

Huh

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