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[-] Gonzako@lemmy.world 33 points 10 months ago

I'll be honest, as long as you don't make it weird you can approach a lot of people be they're on the job or not. If they're on the job just ask them about the journey so far. Like, they're also human you can treat them as such.

[-] UrPartnerInCrime@sh.itjust.works 32 points 10 months ago

Nah. Everyone I'm attracted to either better know it by my silence or well never be together

[-] Gonzako@lemmy.world 14 points 10 months ago

Wow, what a relief, I thought you were into me

[-] richieadler@lemmy.myserv.one 3 points 10 months ago

I’ll be honest, as long as you don’t make it weird you can approach a lot of people be they’re on the job or not

Nah, people talk. If it's known that you've approached many people, you'll get an automatic rejection from the rest.

[-] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 0 points 10 months ago

If it’s known that you’ve approached many people,

Unless you live in Buttfuck Montana, how would that be known?

[-] richieadler@lemmy.myserv.one 1 points 10 months ago

We're talking within a work place. People do talk to each other.

[-] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 1 points 10 months ago

Yes, and if I have my headphones on at work, that means I'm focusing on something and you shouldn't bother me unless it's important. That's what it means for most people. It certainly doesn't mean "this is a good time to ask me out."

[-] richieadler@lemmy.myserv.one 1 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

Tell that to people impervious to subtlety.

But I meant that if you ask out a lot of persons at work, all the others will know and they'll reject you preemptively.

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