Do you have a sibling? What is the relationship like? (lemmy.dbzer0.com)

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I'm male aged 19-22, I have an older brother about 4-5 years older (giving age ranges for better anonymity). Relationship is... not good (read: it's terrible, horrifyingly terrible, arch-nemesis). How about you?

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[-] Cybermass@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

Older sister, drug addict, lost her first kid and second kid is now permanently in the custody of my mother. We don't speak, it's hard to talk to her, she thinks shes a god and that she sees spirits and she's just totally out to lunch.

[-] DandomRude@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

I am very sorry to hear that. I have a friend who is an addict. We have really tried everything but it was futile - multiple withdrawals and all that. He ultimately ruined himself and his family. I wish you all the best, but please be careful.

[-] Cybermass@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago

I appreciate the kind words. I myself am a recovered addict, was very addicted to Xanax and cocaine (which my sister introduced me to at a young age). It can be frustrating at times especially for myself to see people deal with this, because I was able to stop myself and change my life.

Ultimately you can't help those that don't wish to help themselves, and trying to do that will accomplish nothing except for ruining your own life.

[-] DandomRude@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

I admire your willpower. Stay save!

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