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I mean if you don't love your partner you shouldn't be in a relationship with your partner, unless that relationship brings other things that convince you to stay with them. If you're unhappy with your monogamous relationship and want to pursue a non-monogamous relationship, then that's your decision to leave your current relationship.
Nobody should have to stay with someone they don't love, and nobody should have to stay in a relationship they are unhappy with. And conversely, everyone should be able to be in a consensual relationship with someone they love, and everyone should be able to be in a consensual relationship that they're happy with. If your relationship makes you unhappy, you have no personal obligation to stay in it, and if your relationship makes you happy, you have no personal obligation to leave it.
Also you have no obligation to your parents or outsiders at all for that matter. They don't "deserve" to decide your entire life just because they fucked without protection one day. Don't let other people control your happiness, especially not cultist nutjobs.
If you want to marry for tax purposes only, there's nothing wrong with that. Marriage in the current sense is an entirely legal concept, and only exists for legal purposes.
Like I'm sorry if you regret your relationship choice and you're unhappy with it, that you're sexually unattracted to your wife and have such strong sexual and/or romantic urges for other people that you want to cheat on her / are so untrusting of your wife that you're paranoid that she wants to cheat on you, and you felt you've gone in too deep to pull out of it, but that's on you and entirely your problem. Don't get into a relationship if you know from the start that you're going to be unhappy with it, and don't stay in a relationship and waste everyone's time and emotional effort if it makes you miserable. It's pretty obvious but I guess some people have a hard time understanding it.
Exactly. I for one encourage fathers to leave their wives the second they are challenged or bored of it. For the good of society. Kids gotta grow up some day and learn they don't necessarily need a father or discipline and financial stability. I mean, if they aren't always happy how can society ever get there? Proud of young minds like yours that see through the BS and understand that indeed, it's all about your happiness.
If you take boredom or challenge as making your relationship miserable I guess. I don't think your wife would want to be chained to someone that's so irresponsible or delusional as to play strawman like this, so you'd probably be doing her a favor... assuming you have a wife (I doubt you do nor ever will but I have to suspend my disbelief sometimes).
Yikes, you seem cruel. Have a good day man
Not cruel, just stating the obvious. Like if you're that unstable, causing any amount of change to make you extremely unhappy with your relationship, you probably shouldn't be in the relationship to begin with. You shouldn't have kids in the first place even, like if you're that quick to commit to something you know next to nothing about, that is an issue entirely caused by your selfishness and/or impulsiveness.
The only obligation you have is to your kids, because you made the decision to bring them into this world and you're responsible for cursing them with existence, you have no obligation to your relationship or your parents or anyone else for that matter.
Thanks for avoiding beating strawmen to death. It's like you're here with me, my wife, and our kids, trying to make it work ♥️
Yeah, all of your comments are strawmen, I'm aware. I'm extracting the actual argument you're trying to make out of the strawmen, because clearly you do think everyone has an obligation to force themselves into a shitty relationship that makes them and their partner unhappy just because their parents or God said so, the position probably being projection from your life experience since you seem to like to bring up your parents.
My point is that that is the stance a religious nutjob takes, not a normal functioning human being, and saying "haha here's a witty sarcastic comment about my dad cheating on my mom" doesn't have any bearing on gay people's relationships. You can get mad at other people's happiness all you want, but at the end of the day you're just crying over other people not conforming to your beliefs and getting mad that they won't make themselves miserable for your sky daddy.
Leave your wife and kids when you feel like it for the happiness boost, got it. If you were a relationship counselor in my area I'd sign my wife up- you're good.
Lol your entire point was that "gay relationship bad because some people want to cheat on their wife". This has nothing to do with leaving kids, yet you're trying to insert kids into the equation to make people feel bad about the concept of relationships based on consent. Stop being delusional. You can't "leave your kids".
Tell that to my gay dad
Nice joke, you can break down and make trolly remarks all you want, that doesn't make society point and laugh at you any less.
Don't think you can just leave this thread the second you aren't happy with it.
What are you talking about? Your entire shtick is making dumb comments in a bid to shield your arguments under the guise of "haha it's totally a funny troll" yet it doesn't work because you're still obviously getting offended by people telling you you're wrong. Trolling doesn't work when you're being half-serious and actually identify with the undertones & beliefs you're spouting. All I did was state that. I'm neutral with it because I'm not the poor sap that's afflicted with your mental disease.
You can get offended with my comments all you want, your only stance against them is laughably easy to disprove and makes you look like a dumbass.
You're... right. Under the guise of trolling I am absolutely seething right now. Your logic is just too sound to be refuted. Once you pointed out my mental disease with such grace despite your obvious passion I know I had met my match. I attempted to dodge with the gay dad comment, but you're right it wasn't funny. Also untrue as in my earlier comment I didn't mention it was a gay brothel. I am now naked and writhing in your arms, held together by the sheer force of your big-brained embrace
that's kind of gay dude, my parents wouldn't approve
I won't tell your parents. Have you tried slipping extra materials in their bible?