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Mostly #4, with the occasional #1
(sh.itjust.works)
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Mostly #3. I'm too lazy to go through and accept all the invites, and I'll just bail on meetings if I know they're BS.
I block out time like #2, but people just schedule over the top anyway. At least we have a culture of no meetings after 2PM, so I usually have some time in the afternoon, but I need to leave by 4:30 or traffic sucks.