I feel like there's still an acceptable way to do this as long as you keep it respectful and follow the mantra of "say more with less". For example, let's say we were at a cookout and I came by and said "Hey dude, have you seen Josh Allen's girlfriend? She's absolutely stunning". You pull your phone out Google her we both nod and then move on to something else. If it lingers more than that or wades into the more murky waters of specifics then I agree it's totally over the line.