That's just because you're... Nornal?

You could understand it better if you'd change your PoV. If you'd see women not as people but as priperty, things make sense. He was, oh wonder, one of those religious pieces of shit. Women are for making babies, cleaning and cooking. And of course, on top of it: sexual slavery.

Took her 10yrs to find the bravery to leave him. She fled, changed name and moved 300km afar. But she's broken beyond measure, because she also left her kids behind and can never see them again. So, it's basically just the shell that survived.

Another survivor I know, didn't leave. Because of the children. He said "if you dare to leave, i will hurt your kids and u will never see them again." and she obeyed until the kids were old enough to leave. And she did too. It was >20yrs of daily abuse as a breathing sex-toy. That was 10yrs ago and she's still in constant fear he might be around the next corner. That's like 1/100 of the story.

And it's far more widespread than one might think. Incels rising, islam rising, whatever else cult is rising where women are just property. Or this "trad-wife" shit. It's even women living it freely because they still got a handful of rights...

Ugh,people suck.

PS: Watch fargo s5 if you want to get an uncomfy insight (also they didn't dare to tell the real reality)