submitted 9 months ago by electric_nan@lemmy.ml to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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Does anyone else vacillate between feeling hot (attractive) and repellant?

Some days I feel like all the women around me find me desirable, and other days I feel like none of them do. I rarely feel 'in between'.

I don't really like feeling either extreme. For one thing, I don't trust either feeling! Feeling unattractive is obviously a bad feeling, but feeling ultra attractive is also bad. It leads me to uncomfortable fantasies and an inability to distinguish normal interactions from flirtation.

Does anyone else feel like this?

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[-] intensely_human@lemm.ee 2 points 9 months ago

Yes I have this going on. It seems to me that people either desperately want me, or they’re disgusted with me. Nobody seems to just ignore me.

[-] electric_nan@lemmy.ml 1 points 9 months ago

I'm not even talking about actual external feedback. Like, this is all purely in my head as far as I know.

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