I made my own bash script that uses rsync. I stopped using Github so here's a paste lol.

I define the backups like this, first item is source, other items on that line are it's exclusions.

/home/shared
/home/jamie     tmp/ dj_music/ Car_Music_USB
/home/jamie_work

#!/usr/bin/ssh-agent /bin/bash

# chronicle.sh



# Get absolute directory chronicle.sh is in
REAL_PATH=`(cd $(dirname "$0"); pwd)`

# Defaults
BACKUP_DEF_FILE="${REAL_PATH}/backup.conf"
CONF_FILE="${REAL_PATH}/chronicle.conf"
FAIL_IF_PRE_FAILS='0'
FIXPERMS='true'
FORCE='false'
LOG_DIR='/var/log/chronicle'
LOG_PREFIX='chronicle'
NAME='backup'
PID_FILE='~/chronicle/chronicle.pid'
RSYNC_OPTS="-qRrltH --perms --delete --delete-excluded"
SSH_KEYFILE="${HOME}/.ssh/id_rsa"
TIMESTAMP='date +%Y%m%d-%T'

# Set PID file for root user
[ $EUID = 0 ] && PID_FILE='/var/run/chronicle.pid'


# Print an error message and exit
ERROUT () {
    TS="$(TS)"
    echo "$TS $LOG_PREFIX (error): $1"
    echo "$TS $LOG_PREFIX (error): Backup failed"
    rm -f "$PID_FILE"
    exit 1
}


# Usage output
USAGE () {
cat << EOF
USAGE chronicle.sh [ OPTIONS ]

OPTIONS
    -f path   configuration file (default: chronicle.conf)
    -F        force overwrite incomplete backup
    -h        display this help
EOF
exit 0
}


# Timestamp
TS ()
{
    if
        echo $TIMESTAMP | grep tai64n &>/dev/null
    then
        echo "" | eval $TIMESTAMP
    else
        eval $TIMESTAMP
    fi
}


# Logger function
# First positional parameter is message severity (notice|warn|error)
# The log message can be the second positional parameter, stdin, or a HERE string
LOG () {
    local TS="$(TS)"
    # local input=""

    msg_type="$1"

    # if [[ -p /dev/stdin ]]; then
    #     msg="$(cat -)"
    # else
        shift
        msg="${@}"
    # fi
    echo "$TS chronicle ("$msg_type"): $msg"
}

# Logger function
# First positional parameter is message severity (notice|warn|error)
# The log message canbe stdin or a HERE string
LOGPIPE () {
    local TS="$(TS)"
    msg_type="$1"
    msg="$(cat -)"
    echo "$TS chronicle ("$msg_type"): $msg"
}

# Process Options
while
    getopts ":d:f:Fmh" options; do
        case $options in
            d ) BACKUP_DEF_FILE="$OPTARG" ;;
            f ) CONF_FILE="$OPTARG" ;;
            F ) FORCE='true' ;;
            m ) FIXPERMS='false' ;;
            h ) USAGE; exit 0 ;;
            * ) USAGE; exit 1 ;;
    esac
done


# Ensure a configuration file is found
if
    [ "x${CONF_FILE}" = 'x' ]
then
    ERROUT "Cannot find configuration file $CONF_FILE"
fi

# Read the config file
. "$CONF_FILE"


# Set the owner and mode for backup files
if [ $FIXPERMS = 'true' ]; then
#FIXVAR="--chown=${SSH_USER}:${SSH_USER} --chmod=D770,F660"
FIXVAR="--usermap=*:${SSH_USER} --groupmap=*:${SSH_USER} --chmod=D770,F660"
fi


# Set up logging

if [ "${LOG_DIR}x" = 'x' ]; then
    ERROUT "(error): ${LOG_DIR} not specified"
fi

mkdir -p "$LOG_DIR"
LOGFILE="${LOG_DIR}/chronicle.log"

# Make all output go to the log file
exec >> $LOGFILE 2>&1


# Ensure a backup definitions file is found
if
    [ "x${BACKUP_DEF_FILE}" = 'x' ]
then
    ERROUT "Cannot find backup definitions file $BACKUP_DEF_FILE"
fi


# Check for essential variables
VARS='BACKUP_SERVER SSH_USER BACKUP_DIR BACKUP_QTY NAME TIMESTAMP'
for var in $VARS; do
    if [ ${var}x = x ]; then
        ERROUT "${var} not specified"
    fi
done


LOG notice "Backup started, keeping $BACKUP_QTY snapshots with name \"$NAME\""


# Export variables for use with external scripts
export SSH_USER RSYNC_USER BACKUP_SERVER BACKUP_DIR LOG_DIR NAME REAL_PATH


# Check for PID
if
    [ -e "$PID_FILE" ]
then
    LOG error "$PID_FILE exists"
    LOG error 'Backup failed'
    exit 1
fi

# Write PID
touch "$PID_FILE"

# Add key to SSH agent
ssh-add "$SSH_KEYFILE" 2>&1 | LOGPIPE notice -

# enhance script readability
CONN="${SSH_USER}@${BACKUP_SERVER}"


# Make sure the SSH server is available
if
    ! ssh $CONN echo -n ''
then
    ERROUT "$BACKUP_SERVER is unreachable"
fi


# Fail if ${NAME}.0.tmp is found on the backup server.
if
    ssh ${CONN} [ -e "${BACKUP_DIR}/${NAME}.0.tmp" ] && [ "$FORCE" = 'false' ]
then
    ERROUT "${NAME}.0.tmp exists, ensure backup data is in order on the server"
fi


# Try to create the destination directory if it does not already exist
if
    ssh $CONN [ ! -d $BACKUP_DIR ]
then
    if
        ssh $CONN mkdir -p "$BACKUP_DIR"
        ssh $CONN chown ${SSH_USER}:${SSH_USER} "$BACKUP_DIR"
    then :
    else
        ERROUT "Cannot create $BACKUP_DIR"
    fi
fi

# Create metadata directory
ssh $CONN mkdir -p "$BACKUP_DIR/chronicle_metadata"


#-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=
# PRE_COMMAND

if
    [ -n "$PRE_COMMAND" ]
then
    LOG notice "Running ${PRE_COMMAND}"
    if
        $PRE_COMMAND
    then
        LOG notice "${PRE_COMMAND} complete"
    else
        LOG error "Execution of ${PRE_COMMAND} was not successful"
        if [ "$FAIL_IF_PRE_FAILS" -eq 1 ]; then
            ERROUT 'Command specified by PRE_COMMAND failed and FAIL_IF_PRE_FAILS enabled'
        fi
    fi
fi


#-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=
# Backup

# Make a hard link copy of backup.0 to rsync with
if [ $FORCE = 'false' ]; then
    ssh $CONN "[ -d ${BACKUP_DIR}/${NAME}.0 ] && cp -al ${BACKUP_DIR}/${NAME}.0 ${BACKUP_DIR}/${NAME}.0.tmp"
fi


while read -u 9 l; do

    # Skip commented lines
    if [[ "$l" =~ ^#.* ]]; then
    continue
    fi

    if [[ $l = '/*'* ]]; then
        LOG warn "$SOURCE is not an absolute path"
        continue
    fi

    # Reduce whitespace to one tab
    line=$(echo $l | tr -s [:space:] '\t')

    # get the source
    SOURCE=$(echo "$line" | cut -f1)

    # get the exclusions
    EXCLUSIONS=$(echo "$line" | cut -f2-)

    # Format exclusions for the rsync command
    unset exclude_line
    if [ ! "$EXCLUSIONS" = '' ]; then
        for each in $EXCLUSIONS; do
            exclude_line="$exclude_line--exclude $each "
        done
    fi


    LOG notice "Using SSH transport for $SOURCE"


    # get directory metadata
    PERMS="$(getfacl -pR "$SOURCE")"


    # Copy metadata
    ssh $CONN mkdir -p ${BACKUP_DIR}/chronicle_metadata/${SOURCE}
    echo "$PERMS" | ssh $CONN -T "cat > ${BACKUP_DIR}/chronicle_metadata/${SOURCE}/metadata"


    LOG debug "rsync $RSYNC_OPTS $exclude_line "$FIXVAR" "$SOURCE" \
    "${SSH_USER}"@"$BACKUP_SERVER":"${BACKUP_DIR}/${NAME}.0.tmp""

    rsync $RSYNC_OPTS $exclude_line $FIXVAR "$SOURCE" \
    "${SSH_USER}"@"$BACKUP_SERVER":"${BACKUP_DIR}/${NAME}.0.tmp"

done 9< "${BACKUP_DEF_FILE}"


#-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=
# Try to see if the backup succeeded

if
    ssh $CONN [ ! -d "${BACKUP_DIR}/${NAME}.0.tmp" ]
then
    ERROUT "${BACKUP_DIR}/${NAME}.0.tmp not found, no new backup created"
fi


# Test for empty temp directory
if
    ssh $CONN [ ! -z "$(ls -A ${BACKUP_DIR}/${NAME}.0.tmp 2>/dev/null)" ]
then
    ERROUT "No new backup created"
fi

#-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=
# Rotate

# Number of oldest backup
X=`expr $BACKUP_QTY - 1`


LOG notice 'Rotating previous backups'

# keep oldest directory temporarily in case rotation fails
ssh $CONN [ -d "${BACKUP_DIR}/${NAME}.${X}" ] && \
ssh $CONN mv "${BACKUP_DIR}/${NAME}.${X}" "${BACKUP_DIR}/${NAME}.${X}.tmp"


# Rotate previous backups
until [ $X -eq -1 ]; do
    Y=$X
    X=`expr $X - 1`

    ssh $CONN [ -d "${BACKUP_DIR}/${NAME}.${X}" ] && \
    ssh $CONN mv "${BACKUP_DIR}/${NAME}.${X}" "${BACKUP_DIR}/${NAME}.${Y}"
    [ $X -eq 0 ] && break
done

# Create "backup.0" directory
ssh $CONN mkdir -p "${BACKUP_DIR}/${NAME}.0"


# Get individual items in "backup.0.tmp" directory into "backup.0"
# so that items removed from backup definitions rotate out
while read -u 9 l; do

    # Skip commented lines
    if [[ "$l" =~ ^#.* ]]; then
    continue
    fi

    # Skip invalid sources that are not an absolute path"
    if [[ $l = '/*'* ]]; then
        continue
    fi

    # Reduce multiple tabs to one
    line=$(echo $l | tr -s [:space:] '\t')

    source=$(echo "$line" | cut -f1)

    source_basedir="$(dirname $source)"

    ssh $CONN mkdir -p "${BACKUP_DIR}/${NAME}.0/${source_basedir}"

    LOG debug "ssh $CONN cp -al "${BACKUP_DIR}/${NAME}.0.tmp${source}" "${BACKUP_DIR}/${NAME}.0${source_basedir}""

    ssh $CONN cp -al "${BACKUP_DIR}/${NAME}.0.tmp${source}" "${BACKUP_DIR}/${NAME}.0${source_basedir}"

done 9< "${BACKUP_DEF_FILE}"


# Remove oldest backup
X=`expr $BACKUP_QTY - 1` # Number of oldest backup
ssh $CONN rm -Rf "${BACKUP_DIR}/${NAME}.${X}.tmp"

# Set time stamp on backup directory
ssh $CONN touch -m "${BACKUP_DIR}/${NAME}.0"

# Delete temp copy of backup
ssh $CONN rm -Rf "${BACKUP_DIR}/${NAME}.0.tmp"

#-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=
# Post Command

if
    [ ! "${POST_COMMAND}x" = 'x' ]
then
    LOG notice "Running ${POST_COMMAND}"
    if
        $POST_COMMAND
    then
        LOG notice "${POST_COMMAND} complete"
    else
        LOG warning "${POST_COMMAND} complete with errors"
    fi
fi

# Delete PID file
rm -f "$PID_FILE"

# Log success message
LOG notice 'Backup completed successfully'