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[-] Etterra@lemmy.world 46 points 2 years ago

Eh doing that isn't really worth the headache. Blind faith is, IMO, a socially acceptable mental illness. You can't cure a mental illness by brute force; all your gonna do is tire yourself out.

[-] Asafum@feddit.nl 56 points 2 years ago

It's not even that, the comic really does get right to the point. It would absolutely crush some people. My grandmother finds strength to deal with such bullshit by her beliefs so I wouldn't dare take that away from her. It's harmless as long as they aren't the type to push their beliefs on you and hurt you for it.

[-] Enkrod@feddit.de 18 points 2 years ago

Your grandma is not (necessarily - I don't know her, she could be trafficking people) a bad person, but her beliefs and that of so many others who also are good (at least they might be) people provide the fertile ground for the growth of an agressive weed. It's not the grounds fault, it could be growing strawberries instead, but right now its existence nourishes a strangling vine that bears poisonous fruit.

We definetly should not poison the ground to kill the weed, though that certainly is a way to get rid of it. But we absolutely need to prevent it from spreading, new fields should not be infected by it and with the exhaution of the old places of growth, we might manage to extinct it.

That's why it is important to keep in mind that your grandma is (most likely) okay to just exist as a believer, but that the beliefs she holds are roots of something, that must not spread.

[-] Asafum@feddit.nl 10 points 2 years ago

Your grandma is not (necessarily - I don’t know her, she could be trafficking people) a bad person,

She's actually the head of the #2 highest volume child trafficking organization! I'm so proud! Lol

I do agree with what you said though, I just couldn't help making the joke. :P

[-] Donjuanme@lemmy.world 7 points 2 years ago

Also imo a church directory is a con-man's gold mine. Especially elderly church members, they've been taught all their lives to Believe anyone exuding confidence and claiming to have answers and solutions.

[-] little_tuptup@lemmy.ml 4 points 2 years ago

So wouldn't that mean actively going around telling newbies why church is bad? Which is what we don't want religious folks doing?

[-] melpomenesclevage@lemm.ee 17 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Okay but as a kid, I got crushed because my family was religious and threw me out like literal fucking trash. This shit never stays harmless, and it keeps people susceptible to the worst instincts to do shit like fascism. Its always the most vulnerable who this shit hurts, so nobody cares.

So I don't give a shit how good your delusion makes you feel. If you want to hurt people to feel good, keep it between you and yourself and just put a needle in your arm. Plus, if something goes wrong there, you have narcan.

[-] Asafum@feddit.nl 7 points 2 years ago

I'm sorry you went through that but I literally said "It’s harmless as long as they aren’t the type to push their beliefs on you and hurt you for it."

My family has always been live and let live. They're religious but you wouldn't know it unless you spent enough time with them to hear them mention going to mass or whatever.

[-] melpomenesclevage@lemm.ee 14 points 2 years ago

But they always do. Its like the mythical 'good cop', they act as cover for the rest, and (almost) never take real action to compensate for the damage the majority do. Its one if those circumstances where being individually harmless is not systemically harmless.

[-] Asafum@feddit.nl 4 points 2 years ago

I think I can agree with that. They may not like what the church has to say about LGBT+ people, but they also don't actively fight for their rights either.

I do have a gay cousin though and they all love him, but yeah how they act within their own family doesn't change how society at large deals with those issues.

I'd absofuckinglutley love to see religion eventually go by the wayside, too much pain and suffer caused by it, but to "forcefully" remove someone from within it can also be really damaging to that individual who may not be hurting anyone. I don't really know what the answer is there though. Hopefully in time we move away from these magical stories. :/

[-] melpomenesclevage@lemm.ee 3 points 2 years ago

The solution isnt shallow stripping if shit or reeducation camps that basically amount to bullying, but actually fixing the core problems. I know I tend to talk about a lot of American atheists as 'Christianity as directed by Christopher Nolan'; all the explicit magic and camp stripped out, but otherwise the exact same ways of thinking they were raised with.

But the most anyone can do anything here is halfway, so...

[-] ThatWeirdGuy1001@lemmy.world 4 points 2 years ago

In my eyes that's just being a hypocrite.

You're either following the rules completely or you're cherry picking and a hypocrite.

[-] Asafum@feddit.nl 5 points 2 years ago

That can absolutely be true, but the context here is just the comic where some guys got a "win" and totally crushed a person we don't know anything about.

My initial comment was replying to someone saying it's not worth it because of how difficult it can be with no payout. I just wanted to remind them that the outcome can be really bad for some people.

On a related topic: my mother isn't religious, but she believes in "karma" and "reiki healing," all that new age b.s. It helps her cope with life and i'd never want to take that from her just because it isnt real unless she starts using that as a way to cure cancer or something that will actually hurt her.

[-] Drewelite@lemmynsfw.com 3 points 2 years ago

The thing I always feel the need to remind people: they would be that kind of person without religion.

[-] Asafum@feddit.nl 5 points 2 years ago

Not my grandma, she always says it's God that helps her through her troubles and that her faith in his support is what helps her cope with bad times.

There are other ways that I totally agree, she says God helped her survive, but in those cases I remind her it's her own intelligence and resourcefulness that got her through those situations.

[-] Drewelite@lemmynsfw.com 6 points 2 years ago

What I mean, which I didn't make clear in my original post, was: If religion was erased before she was born, she'd still find something to place her faith in and power up her innate resourcefulness. And the people who force their views on others would find another authoritative vehicle for that. But you're right, if you rip that foundation out now, you risk more harm than good.

[-] Sweetpeaches69@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago

I think that depends on the person. Some would be completely lost without their god.

[-] melpomenesclevage@lemm.ee 1 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

I think if you don't tear out the roots that's true, but we live in a culture where anyone does anything any way but half.

[-] ManniSturgis@lemmy.zip 1 points 2 years ago

As long as there are billionaires, I've got bigger fish to fry.

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