First of all, cut it with the smug attitude. Or are you mad because I said that something you've done is harmful? Whatever you say, it ultimately is.

Of course when speaking about porn we're going to talk to the porn industry, because that's the relevant part. Just like when vegans talk about meat, they're referencing the huge animal product industries and not the guy fishing every couple of parts. Or when leftists talk about capitalism, they are talking about the huge amount of capital, how it shapes public policy, how it causes imperialism etc, and not about the friendly neighborhood baker that employs three people.

Even if you make "good" or "wholesome" porn, it's going to end up in the huge porn industry sites, which are the cause of most of porn's harms (rapid switching of images/videos, hardcore and fetishistic content mixed with more vanilla stuff, to mention some).