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We went on our yearly vacation a week ago, and despite eating and drinking a lot, I didn't really gain any weight. I'm hoping to drop some weight this summer. I got a more physical job, and I'm eating better.
We had to put our dog to sleep right before the trip, and the lead up to that was very stressful. We quit doing yoga, didn't have time for ourselves or motivation to go hiking or anything. I also had a really bad bite on one of my fingers, so my hand was unusable for a few weeks. I'm sure I'm forgetting some other BS.
Anyway, all this is to say, we plan on starting yoga again tomorrow, and I'm getting motivation to start doing things that need doing around here. That's my short term improvement plan. I'm not at rock bottom, but it's been a while since I've slacked off this hard.
My condolences. Putting a pet down is never easy
Thank you. It was really hard watching her go down hill and having to decide when it was time. I miss her, but she's not struggling anymore, and our relationship is improving.