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this post was submitted on 08 Jun 2024
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It means you deserve loneliness. Because you didn't take responsibility for doing the one MOST BASIC thing, which is to love yourself and believe in yourself. It doesn't have to be perfect or 100% (in fact better not!) but you do have to be able to see the good in yourself such that you can have confidence others will see it too.
Instead you blame others for it and feel sorry for yourself. You don't even seem to realize that it's this fact and your lack of responsibility toward yourself that is the reason others may find it hard to love you.
You and only you are responsible for that. Fix that and you fill not be lonely. Nobody wants to be around someone like that.
No. I won't change shit.
I know. Because you are so insecure that you need to be lonely and unloved. You need to be the victim.
Victim by ass.