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Huh. I don't live in that world I guess. A wall? For women but not men? Ha ha ha! Here, women are mostly holding up much better as far as I can tell.
Fertility - wise, what you say makes more sense, if you want a family better to start before 30 if you can, it's easier on your body, and probably the origin of that wall nonsense. Having my last one at nearly 40 was not hard, but a first one that old is riskier.
I believe there is a wall for men also but it's not related to the age and more about personality stuff, in the case of women and in the society historically women physical aspect have been more important not the same for men. Idk the numbers but just compare how much men vs women are on onlyfans and I can bet the few men are more attractive by their personality than by the physical aspect.
Men definetly care about women personality but I believe it's of second importance, but for women if men didn't have a good personality they aren't attractive at all.
I mean women's personality it's very important also but usually men care less about it than physical attraction.
Historically women attractive it's based on the beauty and men attractive it's based in personality and other characteristics like social status, money and power(leadership).
My point could be, there are men who born in the wall, women also but it's not the same how both roles generate attractiveness.